Caffeine can make you tired because it blocks the receptor that reports tiredness rather than reducing the tiredness itself, which is still there when the caffeine wears off. With daily use you develop tolerance, so most of what your coffee does is return you to your normal alertness rather than raise you above it. Three things to do: take your last caffeine at least 9 hours before bed, separate the coffee from the sugar, and if the tiredness has lasted weeks, look at your sleep, mood and iron rather than at your coffee.